Breaking taboos: The movement from religion to spirituality involves rebellion in the spirit of Jesus, Muhammad and others. The search for answers is a quest that leads to the breaking of taboos set by family and society -- The erotic life: There are no sexual techniques. There is only treating that other person as a marvel, as someone to be delighted in, to be cherished. Spirited living lends relish to everyday acts -- Loving the imperfect: the shared spiritual journey toward unconditional love invloves openness, struggle, trust, and accepting a real person with all his or her gnarls, mystery and "green, growing edges".